Mother's Day - My Life as a Multiple #5
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@maisondeforgeron I am like-minded. You are an inspiration to me. You have endured so much and become in my eyes, such a wonderful person. You create beautiful things and you encourage and inspire others. I'm not a grand person either, fairly simple. I'm the actual mother of 5, and many more who I have mothered. I have two grandsons. I'm happy in my life right now. I just focus on today. Thank you for your very sweet comment and for sharing some of your story with me. It means so much!
Happy Mother's Day to you and I hope you have a happy day today!
Nikki xx
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@surfergirl3915 Happy mom's day to you too!
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My mom and dad split when my twin brother and I were only 18 months old. We rarely saw my dad and my mom remarried to a good man when we were 5. We had a happy childhood, until we hit about 11 and my mom changed she became a very angry person. Her and my stepdad split up. If she wasn't ignoring me and my brother she was on a tyrade with us and we never knew why. I've been a Chrisitian all my life, I started Sunday school when I was 8, but the hardest thing in my life I've had to do is try and forgive both my mom and my dad. The issues with both of them got worse as I got older. When I got to an age to defend myself my mom and I would and still get into arguments. I tried to make a relationship with my dad after my son was born, but the first time he made a promise to my son, I knew he would break I backed off. I've had to deal with very bad health problems since I was 23, I had my son when I was 22 and was unable to have any more because of my health. He is my blessing, him and my 2nd husband. I have members of my family I don't speak to any more and at one time I was the only one in the family that everyone would speak to, but they want to as you say "cause emotional pain" so I am quite happy with my husband and son and I have a niece that spends time with me. Happy Mother's Day to you!
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@rboowybe You sound like you have made a very happy life for yourself and your family. It's all we can do. We have to try to make our lives as happy as possible now that we have the control. Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. It is so uplifting to me to see how others have overcome their hardships. I hope your Mother's Day is a good one and that you have a happy day today!!!
Nikki xx
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Couldn't have said it any better mom, we all love you so much.
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@missy-goldsberry Thank you!!!
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I'm sorry to hear that some of your children don't care... but that's good that you have such people in your life as Missy and Jenny, and Jesse. Thank you for sharing your post!
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Hi I’ve been reading your blog & I was surprised to find you weren’t a carefree young surfer girl, anyway that’s ok, I’ve had a bit of experience with mental illness too, seems like we all have something in common here. Coincidentally I was watching a program yesterday on 60 mins Australia about a 50 year old woman with multiple personality disorder also known as Dissociative Identity Disorder, which appeared to have been a way to deal with her unspeakable childhood trauma. It ended with her taking her father to trial, & I wondered if after that she was finally going to be able to drop some of her personalities, as she said she was now ready to make new memories. Here’s the link if you want to check it out or not, whatever as sometimes it’s annoying when people talk to you about something you know about
hope this link works as some of the links on urstyle don’t work https://www.9news.com.au/national/60-minutes-jeni-haynes-multiple-personality-disorder-dissociative-identity-disorder-child-sex-abuse-crime-courts-police/5149f8e8-c791-4e54-99a0-19ba450848b3 -
@janesstylediary Well, I was a surfer girl when I was young enough to do that--back in my teens. In fact, it is still a sport I enjoy watching and the beach is my favorite place to be. As for taking my father to trial, he is deceased now. But I wasn't interested in that anyway. As for integrating, we are about as integrated as we are going to get. Since my personalities are so in love with Jesse, who would I send away? It's easier to make peace with them and just do what we have always done. I'm so grateful for your comment though. And I will go to the link you sent and take a look. It's always interesting to learn more about the illness and ways to deal with it. Thank you again.
Hugs, Nikki xx
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@asia-12 You are so right!!! I thank God every day for them and for sweet people like you who are trying to understand and show your support!
Hugs, Nikki xx