@katsmeow69 I just recently had a very good friend ask me about a contest that had gone past "the past due date" in judging LOL. She asked me about it in private message. I would think that sending a message to them first, a private one like she sent me, would be helpful. I actually thought that I had judged the contest.
There are a few moderators that do wait a rather lengthy period of time, about two contests links before judging. I like the contests, so I continue doing them; however, if I found it frustrating, I wouldn't. There are many contests out there, so you might suggest to him to try different ones until he finds those he isn't frustrated with, or have him contact the moderator privately to ask why.
I just got over covid and then the flu. That probably doesn't explain me missing the contest, because I really thought that I had judged it. It might explain it for a few others. Tell him that everyone who comes on a forum like this is looking for a little escape from the pressures of life. Most are just busy.
Mostly tell him to feel free to contact me if he believes I am taking too long but in a private message. I don't mind at all. I hope this helps him.
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